Community Champion & Trustee Applications

We are seeking volunteers to join our Community Champions programme to help raise awareness of Honour-Based Abuse and Forced Marriage in the UK. As well as volunteers the charity is recruiting Trustees, a Secretary and a Treasurer.

Following our Open Evening on 8 December the application rounds are now open.

Community Champions:

Thank you to all participants for completing and sending their applications. We will be informing all participants  of the outcome and next steps by 1 February.

Trustee Roles:

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My family are controlling me? What can I do?

Many families, particularly within diaspora communities, implore children to behave in a way which is deemed socially and/or culturally acceptable, in order to preserve the family’s ‘honor’ (or izzat in some cultures). This concept of “honor” refers to a person’s and/or family’s righteousness in the eyes of their community. It is often utilized to ensure that people act in accordance with a certain code or set of rules. As such, if people follow what is considered socially good, they are honored; if not, they are shamed.
In order to uphold this ‘honor’, your family may prevent you from doing things they deem inappropriate, such as becoming involved with friends or a boyfriend or girlfriend from a different culture or religion, wearing certain clothes or makeup, taking part in activities that might not be considered traditional within a particular culture, or being of a certain sexuality. Continue reading “My family are controlling me? What can I do?”

Fozia, Survivor of Forced Marriage reflects on the Day of Memory conference.

I was delighted to attend the annual Day of Memory this month, remembering those lost to so-called ‘honour killings’. Of course it was Shafilea Ahmed who inspired the event, murdered 14 years ago by her own parents for becoming ‘too westernised’ in the UK.

A day to raise national awareness. Here it goes…

As I made my way from the train station, I Continue reading “Fozia, Survivor of Forced Marriage reflects on the Day of Memory conference.”

Asma, Survivor of Honour Based Abuse reflects on Karma Nirvana’s Day of Memory conference.

Karma Nirvana held its third Day of Memory  to remember those who have been killed in the name of so called ‘honour’.  The event took place in Leeds at the magnificent Civic Hall.

Travelling up from London for this event was an honour for me, an honour in its truest sense.  Not the misguided notion of honour that meant females, males and also non-binary people were  murdered by so called family members who were supposed to love and cherish them.

There were events to commemorate the Day of Memory all over the UK, I imagined all the gatherings and how they could be, some with flowers, Continue reading “Asma, Survivor of Honour Based Abuse reflects on Karma Nirvana’s Day of Memory conference.”

Zee, Survivor of Forced Marriage reflects on Karma Nirvana’s Day of Memory Conference.

Waking up to the third annual Day of Memory, I was very excited that this year it was being held in West Yorkshire – my home county. Feeling very proud that the authorities I grew up with who didn’t know about forced marriage and honour based abuse, were now united with Karma Nirvana in a mission to end it. Continue reading “Zee, Survivor of Forced Marriage reflects on Karma Nirvana’s Day of Memory Conference.”